Removing ear wax inside and not surface, cleaning it with cotton buds on sticks or sticking anything in your ears can cause an infection. I lost 40% of my hearing at 15 because of ear infections in both ears.
Hope you find a remedy quick, it's a real torture, the jaw ache, the constant throbbing, night upon night of 1 or two hours sleep, good luck with the treatment.
Get a syringe, thin one, no needle, you can get a bottle bung which allows syring to squeeze into, draw up 1 ml tcp, then 2 ml of suda cream genlty and slowly squirt into your ear(s), a little bit of Olive oil, extra virgin on a small bit of cotton wool, twist it in gently into your ear(s) to seal and take some pain killers before you sleep.
I usually beginning of November wear a small piece of cotton wool in both ears dowsed in Olive oil to stop the icy winds going in, usually till easter so i don't get an infection. It sometimes works, last year it didn't, such a relief to sleep with out that throb.