Drunk and depressed

Discussion in 'Green Room' started by dreamliner77, May 8, 2002.

  1. dreamliner77

    dreamliner77 The Analog Kid

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    ok, here's the deal, I'm drunk, and I'm in love with my female roomate. I think she loves me, but I'm not sure what to do. ANyone got any advice

    feel free to im me

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  2. Sgt Shultz

    Sgt Shultz Guest

    Wait until your not drunk and try talking to her. Subtlety about it.
     
  3. Santamanne

    Santamanne Guest

    Dunno what you should do, but I fell in love with my ex-gf again.. doh :( Haven't seen her in a looong time and all of the sudden she calls me. And now she stole my heart again, bafff... My head is exploding, cant take this anymore... she keeps on flirting with me (pinching my ass all the time :p ) although she has a new bf. :confused: Women, can't live with them not can't live without them..
     
  4. dreamliner77

    dreamliner77 The Analog Kid

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    I've talked to her when I'm (she) isn't drunk and she just says that she thinks of me as a brother. If I didn't love her so much, I think I'd hate her
     
  5. Dubbin1

    Dubbin1 I Like Cheese

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    Did you tell her that you love her? I think that would be the first place to start.

     
  6. dreamliner77

    dreamliner77 The Analog Kid

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    oh yeah, I've told her. I don't know if she takes me seriously though.
     
  7. k22

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    bro - if she says she thinks of you as a brother, you have to move on. If you can't get over her then you need to find another girl and see if she gets jealous - but you have to be willing to use and abuse the substitute broad. I would suggest moving on - the brother comment is her "nice" way of saying "I'm not interested." It shows that she realizes that you're into her but she's not into you as you are.
     
  8. dreamliner77

    dreamliner77 The Analog Kid

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    ahhh,


    hey, thanks for all the advice everyone. I guess it's just been a very bad night
     
  9. k22

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    yeah no problem. She's basically done all the work for you in a sense - it's just up to you to decide whether to press on or to take the hint and surpress your feelings. It sucks dude - but we all go through it so you aren't alone. My advice would be to ignore her for a while and don't seem quite as interested. Sometimes something so easy isn't as attractive to people, they want a challenge. I wouldn't focus on her so much, and if the opportunity presents itself at a later time then take advantage. Also, you say she's your roomate - that's tough. She knows your every move, if you don't have a lot going on and you're staying at the apartment on weekends instead of going out, she knows. But on the other hand you get to spend more time with her than a lot of other guys - it's a double-edged sword. You have to get your own thing going - tell her stories about what you have going on and make it real interesting - if she doesn't have any plans one night invite her out with a group. Just some suggestions. Good luck dude.
     
  10. dreamliner77

    dreamliner77 The Analog Kid

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    wow, something positive. I think. Thanks

    I will move on. Maybe if I didn't spend so much time tinkering with this damn system...
     
  11. demon4870

    demon4870 Guest

    Do this

    Get her real drunk and get real drunk yourself. Then get a movie like you got mail or somethin one of them girly movies so by the end she should be feelin like she needs someone. Stop by the store before by a box of trojans! (magnum I hope:D ) Then do your thing and tomorrow hopefully she will say this guy is great and I need to be with him or blame it on the booze and say u dont remember a damn thing if it goes south!
     
  12. xsivforce

    xsivforce Prodigal Son Folding Team

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    Act interested in someone else. See if there is a change in her behavior. If there isn't, it is probably not gonna happen. Otherwise, get yer freak on!;)
     
  13. Jewelzz

    Jewelzz OSNN Godlike Veteran

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    Games, games, games...sheesh. When will you men learn, just be up front and honest with her. You said you told her that you love her but did you say you were IN love with her. They are totally different. I love my friend but I'm not in love with my friends...get my drift?

    Go out to dinner or just stay at home BUT talk to her and tell her you IN love with her. You'll kick yourself in the ass for the rest of your life if you don't.
     
  14. dreamliner77

    dreamliner77 The Analog Kid

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    Jewelzz, where'd I be without you!!!

    Well, it's a long drawn out story, I'll let you know how it goes.
     
  15. Tittles

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    Was looking threw old threads and I wanna know what ever happend?
     
  16. LordOfLA

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    jesus christ..... even batman would be shocked at this one tittlebitties :D
     
  17. zeke_mo

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    I agree in my experience, if you dont say it exactly the way you mean it, she will ignore or not understand what you are saying. Just bite the bullet and DO IT!!!


    Good luck to ya
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  18. lfp

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    It's better to regret something you did than something you didn't do.
     
  19. VenomXt

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    is she broke his heat tittles you deserve to get punched in the nutts.
     
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    NO L-BOMBS man
    NO L-BOMBS