I never recieved any kind of notice that I was added to anyone's console as a friend?
there is no mail notification, if two consoles share a request though you can send the other person an email though
Wii message board > create message > address book
There it will show your Wii consoles number. If you already have entries in your address book just push plus or minus on the remote until you get back to your consoles number.
hmmmHave not got your message yet