Ha another girl problem.. *sight* theyare evil this is going to be hard to explain.. A really close friend of mine broke up with his girl of 4 years about 1 month ago. His gf didn't really talk to me much through out the whole relationship until he decided to dump her. So i talk to her about it and try to help him and her work things out maybe.. But he tells me he wasn't happy and hasn'tbeen for a while.. cheated on her and now even has a new girl. Well since she didn't really have many people to hang out with, we started to hang out a decent amount, and we grew to like her,, she is what i am looking for in a relationship and i am what she is looking for. So we decided to move on and start dating (with out telling the ex of course). Well the last few weeks have been full of arguements with them because of some other situations. Now i am not sure on what to do.. i really like this girl, she is what all the others didn't have, (jokes, fun to talk to, likes to do stuff i do) just a real cool girl. Last night we decided to tell my friend that we are interested in eachother and he of course got pissed, like we expected it. Now i amstuck because i value the friendship of my friend and the relationship of the girl. He broke up with her really bad, didn't tell her the truth and last night said to her "you are picking him over me" and she toldh im " you are the one who broke up with me and cheated on me also" .. Does anyone think there is a way to pull off this off with being with both of them?