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I don't have roommates this is just a situation a friend is in and I'm curious what other people think. I will use numbers to describe the roommates so you don't see that word over and over again. ok here goes...
#1 has all the bills in her name. #2 has told her that when the bills need to be paid, tell her and she will give her the money. #1 doesn't say anything over three or four months and then just walks up to #2 and says I need (I think it was near) 300 dollars for the past bills. Is that right? Most people have a certain amount of money per month and have no problems paying bills when they need to be in, but when, in this case, #1 doesn't say anything to #2 and #2 is wondering what's going on with the bills #1 just throws it at her all at once.
There is more to this situation
#2 has bought literally every single thing for the apartment...all cleaning supplies, toilet paper, paper towels, silverware, kitchen appliances, tables for the living room, cheese, milk, bread, tylenol...you get the point, EVERYTHING. Also everything that #1 has bought goes in her ROOM! and isn't used by #2. #2 has let #1 borrow her car while barely ever getting gas money or a thank you for any of it. #1 uses #2's stuff all the time and leaves it filthy, or doesn't tell her and #2 can't find things. Also #2 has cleaned the apartment every single time it needs it and has to re clean when #1 "cleans"
I'm thinking these two things cancel each other out. That's just my opinion. Let me have your's
#1 has all the bills in her name. #2 has told her that when the bills need to be paid, tell her and she will give her the money. #1 doesn't say anything over three or four months and then just walks up to #2 and says I need (I think it was near) 300 dollars for the past bills. Is that right? Most people have a certain amount of money per month and have no problems paying bills when they need to be in, but when, in this case, #1 doesn't say anything to #2 and #2 is wondering what's going on with the bills #1 just throws it at her all at once.
There is more to this situation
#2 has bought literally every single thing for the apartment...all cleaning supplies, toilet paper, paper towels, silverware, kitchen appliances, tables for the living room, cheese, milk, bread, tylenol...you get the point, EVERYTHING. Also everything that #1 has bought goes in her ROOM! and isn't used by #2. #2 has let #1 borrow her car while barely ever getting gas money or a thank you for any of it. #1 uses #2's stuff all the time and leaves it filthy, or doesn't tell her and #2 can't find things. Also #2 has cleaned the apartment every single time it needs it and has to re clean when #1 "cleans"
I'm thinking these two things cancel each other out. That's just my opinion. Let me have your's