How exactly can I get the msn messenger set up so it can send and receive files and pics? I tried to follow another post, but all it ended up doing was telling me to take off the xp firewall, and I don't want to do that. Used Zonealarm before xp came out, but Zonealarm and Starband don't get along too well. So how exactly do I change the port settings then so I can send stuff over messenger? If you know....just remember I'm a newbie and keep it simple to understand please!